Manage Video How Do Girls Learn to Walk and Talk? (And How Can You Learn Like Them?)

Of course you can learn how to walk like a woman, but when faced with a group of people you are suddenly not sure about your posture.And when you talk, you focus so much on talking, your body starts acting masculine. Making an effort to talk, you can no longer pay enough attention to your actions.Then you are in trouble…Trying to do everything at the same time, unfortunately the most likely result is that nothing will work. Girls learn how to walk, talk, and act like women around the age of 12-14.It does not come to them naturally. The way women walk and talk is taught to them by society when they are girls. Do some YouTube research on how women in different cultures walk, and you will see what I mean. Seriously, it is fascinating!When I say this I am not taking about models trained for the catwalkI am talking about normal women. Some factors like voice and beautiful features are gifts of nature. But the way women tend to behave is learned. From the age of 12-14, girls start copying adult women and study how to be women in their culture.By the age of 18-20 they have grown used to it, and most girls are pretty comfortable with their feminine behavior. Some girls are successful learners and manage to become very cute, charming, popular women, while others never seem to get the hang of it and stay natural and unsophisticated – usually these girls are tomboys.Consciously you know how to walk and talk like a womanYou may go to a fashion designer or a style artist, who can teach you how to walk, talk, swing your arms and move your eyes and other facial features like a woman.But when you need to coordinate all this, you struggle, and this struggle creates an unnatural look or atmosphere.The main problem is that you don’t feel feminine insideOn the outside, you struggle to copy feminine actions, on the inside you struggle to feel like a woman. This creates a stressful situation for you.

What you want is to feel feminine, express your femininity, and be perceived as a woman by other people. This is the kind of joy you want to feel when you go out and spend time with other people – you want to put your feminine beauty on display and feel good about yourself.So how can you achieve this?Step back and let your subconscious do whatever it takes for you to walk, talk, act, and feel like a woman. Your subconscious is a much better manager than any CEO.Put your subconscious on auto pilot and let it take all the necessary steps for you. This allows YOU to simply enjoy yourself.Women do this all the timeThey effortlessly walk and talk in a feminine way and enjoy their femininity – which is exactly what you want to achieve.Simply being themselves, they enjoy men fawning over them or giving them inviting looks, and other women thinking of them as competitors. This is how easy it is for women to enjoy themselves – and this is how easy it can be for you.So how can you let your subconscious take over?You know how women talk and behave. Your subconscious has seen and memorized it many times and can walk and talk much better than you. But your subconscious has never been given the chance to do it for you.
Your subconscious records everything.It knows how to walk, talk and feel like a woman. But all this knowledge is splintered into bits and pieces in your subconscious.Sometimes you can walk like a woman, sometimes you can feel like a woman, sometimes you can act like a woman, and sometimes you can talk like a woman. But your subconscious has never had a chance to integrate all this knowledge into a single unit.Why your Efforts Fail…You try to integrate all your knowledge how to walk, talk, and act like a woman into a single unit, but still your subconscious cannot do it. Why?
Because you do not actually allow it to take over. This is not your fault. You are simply not trained to do this.Girls are given an environment to achieve thisAnd girls are given lots of time. Girls get to practice every aspect of being a woman from the age of 12-14. They practice how to swing their arms, how to be nice and charming, and how to behave like a woman.
Genetics do play a part, but mainly, girls learn how to be women from women in their surroundings, they learn it from their friends, they learn it from their mothers. And they practice it. After they practice, they gradually integrate everything they learn into the complete female persona of their future.You can do this too, and fast…You can do it using a simple technique, because your subconscious is a better manager then any CEO.Are you missing something?Actually you are missing a center, where your subconscious mind can integrate all your knowledge about being a woman into one unit.
This is your inner woman: a center where all the bits and pieces of your femininity connect and come together in a single unit.So what happens when you hand over control to your subconscious?When you hand over control to your subconscious it naturally assembles all the necessary aspects and creates an inner woman inside you. This inner woman knows how to talk, walk and act like a woman, forming a harmonious whole, like a symphony.This woman knows even the smallest movements, gestures, and postures women use in their everyday lives. For women, too, all this comes from their subconscious – they do not spend a moment consciously thinking about it.This is where problems arise for youWhere people get suspicious because some small aspects of femininity are missing in your behavior. Tiny eye movements, hand gestures, inflections in your voice.But don’t worry. As I said, all you have to do is allow your subconscious to take over, and it will integrate all details big and small it has ever recorded about being a woman, and put them together, creating a natural,completely integrated inner woman for you. Trust me your subconscious will not miss a single aspect.

More importantly, you no longer have to pretend.There is no more pretending once you have an inner woman. People can sense easily when somebody pretends to be something they are not. You know when others pretend to be something they are not.I am not talking about quacks and scammers in the professional world – I am talking about normal people in everyday life. When they pretend, you can tell.The fear of being found out makes you doubt yourself, and feel nervous, making it more likely for you to behave unnaturally. Once this happens, people easily get suspicious.But once you allow your inner woman to take overYou will no longer doubt yourself. Your self-doubt is the result of a rift in your personality. Once you have built a solid, inner woman, however, there will no longer be a rift.You will be one single person, confident and at peace with yourself. You will be one with your femininity, and this will allow you to finally enjoy your feminine self without doubts or nervousness.The inner joy resulting from this oneness will strengthen the stability of your femininity, and make your womanhood appear naturally, without artificiality or unnecessary effort.Women usually feel more comfortableAnd joyful about their appearance because they tend to put a lot of effort into their looks. When you are one with yourself, your inner woman will allow you to enjoy yourself doing all these feminine things.Next Step:Lean how your inner woman helps you combine all your knowledge about femininity into a single unit, which will let you naturally walk, talk, and feel like a woman.

Bold Money Conversations That Can Change Your Life

I recently returned from Kendall SummerHawk’s Feminine Money Mastery event, where women from all around the globe (and a few cool guys as well) gathered to improve their relationship with money. One of the most interesting aspects of this conference for me was learning to identify where we need to have “courageous money conversations” in our lives. These conversations are the ones we often avoid, as they bring up all sorts of disempowering money beliefs. We discussed how to make these conversations a routine practice and give them a methodology so that they aren’t as daunting to embark upon.

Powerful conversations can follow a format that eases some of the tension. Follow these steps and engage in, rather than avoid, the money talks that change your life.

1. Take a moment before the conversation to breathe and set your intention for the way you want the discourse to go. Decide on the outcome you want ahead of time and be very clear in your own mind before the other person is present.

2. Be free from emotion and set the agenda with the other party. Inform them as to the reason for the discussion, the outcome you desire, and the discussion points you plan to cover.

3. Stop and listen. Make sure the other party has a chance to say their piece and that they know you hear them. Repeat back and summarize their ideas – whatever you can do to establish that you understand what they are saying.

4. Offer several options for resolving the situation in various ways, if at all possible.

Find agreement, even if it’s to go to another decision-maker, and detail the subsequent steps, including who will do what, by when. Be sure to close the conversation positively.

After returning home from the conference, I immediately put this methodology to use and had two such conversations. I have been breathing a sigh of relief ever since! While it is important to take on these conversations under any circumstances, if you are intent on making a career shift or growing your business, this is a skill that is especially helpful and will pull you forward dramatically.

When you avoid courageous money conversations, you can be inadvertently sabotaging your own success. For example, a mom was recently telling me about her daughter, who has a job she loves. She is appreciated by her employer, coworkers, and customers, and received a promotion four months ago. She has not, however, received a salary increase to go with the promotion. Instead of having the conversation that needs to be had about the salary increase, she decided to look for another job. Objectively, this seems ridiculous, but she is so averse to having the necessary salary conversation that she has created a story in her head about what this all means and is taking a somewhat misguided action in response. For her, she believes it may actually be easier to land a new position than to have a money conversation where she would be championing her value to the company.

Similar to this case, when I work with clients, I often see two primary challenges:

1. Putting a voice to owning their value, and believing it as well. Examples include stating their fees, saying no to a discounted fee, or negotiating their salary.

2. Speaking honestly about an issue that makes them feel vulnerable. For example, discussing business plans with a spouse or renegotiating a loan they are having trouble paying.

Of course, taking a stance for your money will feel awkward at first. However, once you get a few of these conversations under your belt, you will be looking ahead for the next one! It’s about building a muscle over time that will increase your power across the board. Don’t be afraid to jump in headfirst – I promise you will be glad you did.

Michelle is the CEO and founder of Limit Free Life®, a coaching and personal development company designed to help clients discover and transition into careers or business ventures that satisfy their souls. As a former CPA, business consultant and now a certified business coach,she combines a strong background in finance and transition management with an intuitive coaching style.